Three steps for “so good they can’t ignore me” leadership
Let’s be honest, none of us want to be the thousandth person that tells our boss “I want to grow and be invested in”. Every senior leader’s life is full of people that think telling someone that they want “growth” is the key to opportunity, promotion, increased...
What to do when team morale is low
We can’t control everything. Sometimes, even when you do everything right, things don’t go your way. Many leaders learn early that the organizations we work for don’t always show the same care with our employees that we do. And whether it’s layoffs, or no raises, or...
How conflict can make your relationships better
Navigating conflict is an essential part of leadership. As an agent of positive change, your job requires occasions to facilitate and catalyze uncomfortable conversations. This is easier said than done, because most of us grow up learning how to avoid conflict, not...
Treat your employees like your spouse
Give me a chance here. I recently listened to an episode of the Hacking Your Leadership podcast which focused on professional feedback, and specifically peer-to-peer feedback with teams from various generations. One of the hosts, Chris, said something that resonated...
Overcoming anxiety from older/more experienced employees
Whether it’s your first time in a leadership role or you're merely starting over somewhere new, transitioning into a new job is always challenging. Some challenges you expect, learning new competencies, meeting your initial performance objectives, adopting to the...
How to apologize to your team (without making it weird)
Apologizing in the workplace, especially directly to an employee, is an odd concept for many “old school” leaders. Last week, I waxed philosophical on a circumstance when leaders should apologize to members of their team and received several interesting responses....
How should leaders respond after arguing with one of their employees?
We’ve all said things we regret. To a husband, wife, sibling, parent, friend, acquaintance - we let a conversation get out of hand, we got irritated, and a disagreement turned into an argument. What’s the right thing to do after arguing with someone? There aren’t...
Three questions to get your employees to solve their own problems
Tell me if this sounds familiar. You’re scrambling to meet a tight deadline and have somehow found time to finish up a key project. Unfortunately you're interrupted every 15 minutes by employees who need help with problems they’re perfectly capable of taking care of...
A 10 minute solution to improve your hiring
I’ve spent years using the same packet of interview questions when interviewing candidates. A good mix of direct questions and behavioral questions. Fairly direct. “What’s your proudest accomplishment at your last job?”“Describe your ideal work environment.”“Where do...
Be careful messing with people’s money
In the first year of my leadership career, I messed up a really important interaction. I learned from it and I’ve grown significantly since then, but I still look back and cringe at the avoidable outcome. I utterly failed to advocate for an employee when she asked...
“How do you motivate your employees to work hard and do the job right, without being an ass?”
I came across a great management question on Reddit: “How do you motivate your employees to work hard and do the job right without being an ass? I'm a lead cashier, and I have an employee that's a great person, but she tends to cut corners and isn't very thorough in...
Can you be a good manager if you’re really awkward?
I recently answered this question on Reddit: “I was promoted to management about six months ago. It's all fine except I am so awkward! I'm about the same age or a little older than those I manage. I hate confronting people, especially the cliques. People definitely...